Be Who You Are, Not What Others Want You To Be!❤
Why are you single? When are you going to get married? When are you having kids? Why you don't have kids? Why is she/he divorced? What happened to them? Why are they like that? Why and why and why people like to ask these insensitive questions, being prejudice, stereotyping, speculates, gossips, and make inappropriate judgments.
How can you ask something that someone can't 100% control, just like death? Some things are unknown, it's like asking, when are you going to die? It's common sense. If you don't know this answer, means you won't know the exact why for such questions.
When someone is single by choice or it's not just the right time for them, let it be. So what if that person wants to be or will be single forever? It may be better for the person than being with the wrong partner for the rest of the person's life. You don't meddle with God's plan or even someone's choices. You can't force people to get into relationships, what's more marriage. If it is forced, how can a marriage be happy and whole? Love is a huge topic. Again it's not just about relationships and marriage.
People should not pretend to be stupid, play dumb, needy, spoiled, or fake just to attract/be with a life partner. Women and men should have their own intelligence, personality, independence, and truthfulness in life. We want to be real and genuine, and if someone wants us to be part of their life, it's better for them to know the real us from the get-go. Not presenting a false front.
A healthy relationship should be two individuals who love and care for each other, support, motivate, respect, be kind, honest, loyal, help, guide, communicate well, listen and give the very best to each other, by also being the best version of themselves. Not one person should be superior to the other or vice versa. If you feel forced and put yourself down for another person, you are probably in the wrong relationship.
Put aside status, education level, salary, or position in career, a partner and a healthy relationship should be side by side, be supportive, help each other, understand each other strengths and weaknesses, able to give and take/compromise, and open to learning from each other when it comes to marriage or any relationship.
A woman's or man's characteristics for example being soft or strong, and men prefer soft/more feminine women, and women who are less intelligent/educated than them, should not be generalized. Some men admire women who are intelligent/educated, strong, and independent and women have their preferences too. Different people are attracted to different traits. No one size fits all.
No one should pretend to be less than she/he is for the opposite partner to feel desirable or dominant. If a person desperately and constantly trying to boost their ego, be dominant or prove power especially in a relationship, this may lead to negative behavioral patterns and impacts such as emotional instability, harassment, abuse, bullying, verbal and physical violence, unhappiness, and depression.
We are all individuals in the end and have our differences. As a human being, one of the goals in life is trying to be better than we were yesterday. Trying to change ourselves for the sake of pleasing someone and pretending just to make someone feel happy or superior is not healthy and can jeopardize our own mental health and also the relationship in the long run.
If we want to change something, for example, I want to be more fitter, healthier, happier, smarter, financially independent, and so forth, it is for ourselves (without being selfish or self-absorbed). If we take care of ourselves first then we can take care of others better. Do for yourself and the motivation will be sustainable than doing for other people.
Respect and love yourself. Respect the people around you. Then we should not be degrading or intimidate anyone. This will make you a better person. We attract what we are.
Life is unique, so does human beings. Life itself is bigger than getting married, having kids, make tons of money, and so forth. This is the typical life cycles, stages and goals we all have learned in our life. The strong pressures in society dictate what is better and not just because that's what it is for the past generations have been. The pressure to fit in with society's standards and expectations is also there.
As a society and individual, let's understand deeper that not everyone will have the same life cycles and even life goals. There are things we can control and can't control. Not everything that is good for you is going to be good for other people. Having or not having something can be a blessing and sometimes only God knows why.
In life, some may walk their path of life and make choices completely different from us and that's perfectly fine. We all have our own unique journey and that makes us different, and we can use that differences to make life better for ourselves and the life of others.
Let this sink in.
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Wow!
FB, IG訊息大爆炸📩📩📩📩📩
已經有學生迫不及待詢問俐媽:
英文銜接課有幾堂?
👩🏻🏫: 6堂
俐媽會出現在哪幾堂?
👩🏻🏫: 我有在附圖中打星號標示喔!
怎麼昨天送上的「星座大餐」,只有6個?
👩🏻🏫: 今天再送上part 2,12個星座就湊齊囉😉
我想介紹還沒報名銜接、暑期課的同學,一起在網路上收看俐媽和其他老師的精彩教學,該怎麼做呢?
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㊙️新同學參加方式,今天官網會跟大家說明呦😉
今天我還特別穿上鐘愛的星座洋裝👗,
看得出來它的主題是什麼星座嗎?
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🌟 俐媽英文教室—星座篇part 2:
♎️ Libra 天秤座
🆗 patience 耐心/ refinery 有涵養/ good taste 好品味/ fairness 公平
🆖 inconsistency 不一致/ snobbery 勢利/ vanity 虛榮
㊙️ 育兒特色:mother seeking for balance 平衡媽咪
♏️ Scorpio 天蠍座
🆗 strength 力量/ resilience 適應力/ intuition 直覺/ willpower 意志力
🆖 control 控制欲/ paranoia 偏執/ emotional unavailability 情緒難以捉摸/ obsessiveness 過度執著/ intensity to a fault 執著探究錯誤
㊙️ 育兒特色:magnetic mama 磁鐵媽咪
♐️ Sagittarius 射手座
🆗 adventure 冒險/ wisdom 智慧/ humor 幽默/ perspective 有洞察力的
🆖 impatience 沒耐心/ crudeness 説話太直/ bluntness 遲鈍/ too much spontaneity 過度主動介入/ lack of structure 缺乏組織
㊙️ 育兒特色:mama living in the moment 活在當下的媽咪
♑️ Capricorn 魔羯座
🆗 planning 有計劃/ structure 有系統/ traditional values 傳統價值觀/ consistency 一致性/ patience 耐心/ thoughtfulness 體貼
🆖 worry and anxiety 偏擔心常焦慮/ overly cautious 過度謹慎/ pessimism 悲觀主義/ self-doubt 自我懷疑/ seriousness to a fault 對出錯很認真嚴肅看待
㊙️ 育兒特色:more of the dad than of a mom 嚴父款媽咪
♒️ Aquarius 水瓶座
🆗 youthfulness 年輕活力/ open-mindedness 開明/ originality 原創性/ fairness 公平
🆖 boundaries 設限/ turbulence and drama 易混亂且小題大作/ detachment 情感抽離/ overly permissive tendencies 過度放仼
㊙️ 育兒特色:a mom in all her eclectic glory 兼容並蓄的媽咪
♓️ Pisces 雙魚座
🆗 compassion 同情心/ imagination 想像力/ nurturing 培育的/ creativity 創造力
🆖 kookiness 古怪/ manipulation 支配/ instability 不穩定/ guilt 罪惡感
㊙️ 育兒特色:mermaid mommy 美人魚媽咪
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到底林俐是什麼星座?
我又是什麼款的媽咪?
要看了銜接課內容,才會知道溜~~~~
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